One of the reasons why I don't post that often is because I try to let thoughts percolate so that I can post something more substantive than a reflexive rant. Last Friday I first found the OU's new abstinence website www.Negiah.org and posted a quick response to one of their articles. Since then I've had the opportunity to read through all the articles on the site, and it appears I was inappropriately glib. My argument was that the site was condescending towards teens in a painfully clumsy attempt at being cool and relevant. Other bloggers have similarly blasted the OU