Update: Also see the later and more detailed post How to Handle Negia.org SIW points us to the OU's new site dedicated to abstinence with the redirected link www.negia.org. SIW himself is critical of the OU's position on condoms: Read through the literature on the abstinence movement making its way through public schools and other childhood education, and you'll find that it leads to decreased condom use among the sexually-active, that self-proclaimed 'virgins' frequently choose instead to engage in sexual activity that they simply don't consider 'sexual intercourse' and tend to do it in an unsafe manner, and myriad other